Gradient Ocean

Executive/Life Coaching

"Rediscover who you really are and build a new stress free healthy balanced life"

In 2014, I went through a profoundly deep and meaningful change. Before then, I had hit rock bottom and was lost in addiction, homeless, rough sleeping, self-harming and had attempted suicide a number of times. However, I overcame it all and now I’m here to help you truly understand who you really are and commit to your passion, beat the odds, and become the best version of you!
 

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We all have internal resources and massive potential, but more often than not, we need someone to guide and help us to find these resources and achieve our potential. The world’s greatest athletes, writers, movie stars, musicians, and business owners, have all had personal coaches and mentors who have helped them to understand themselves and act strategically to achieve the “Impossible.”


You’ve got to find what you love and that’s just as true for your work as it is for your lovers. Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to feel truly satisfied is to make sure you have aligned your work life to your true values, and then you’ll do great work. Because the only way to do truly great work is to do what you love. And like any great relationship, it just gets better and better as the years roll on.


As your coach, I will help you to understand how your mind really works and give you new insights and clear unbiased feedback that you won’t get from family, friends or work colleagues. You can then apply these new understandings and knowledge to dramatically increase every aspect of your life, whether you’re looking for personal development, professional development, or both.


I will help you to really, and I mean really understand exactly who you are, not just who you think you are. One of the biggest misconceptions people face today, is that they think they are there behaviours. For example, a businessman will refer to his identity as a businessman, or a student will refer to herself as a student. 


Holding these misconceptions about the self leads to internal conflict and suffering. There are those people who suffer in their suffering, but there are just as many people suffering in their success. Some of the most successful people in the world, who have financial wealth and status, are actually feeling miserable, have failed marriages, and feel stuck, because they do not understand that they have been chasing socially prescribed values, and not their own.


When you truly understand your own values and incorporate them into every dimension of your life, home, work and friendships, then there is true balance and no internal conflict. This leads to profound and deeply meaningful change whereby every dimension of your life becomes truly meaningful, purposeful and fulfilling.  
 

What is my life experince?

For over 20 years, I struggled with addictions. My mental and physical deterioration led to a world of turmoil, distress, anxiety, depression, self-harming and suicide etc. I was in such poor shape that at one point, whilst in hospital, my doctors though I would either die or have to have my leg amputated. This was one of the scariest moments of my life.


I felt so disassociated from the real world that it was almost as if I was a character in a disaster movie, felling trapped, isolated, scared, lonely and lost with it all. For a long time, I had accepted my fate and totally gave up on life. I had taken the easy option, but this change in 2013 when I met someone who opened my mind to possibilities. He encouraged me to attend a residential rehabilitation community for 6 months where they would help me, to find me.


This was the hardest thing I have ever done in my life, but it was also the most rewarding thing I have done in my life. Whilst I was there, I dug my heals in and finally managed to climb out from the pit of disperse and escape the addiction void. For the first time, since I was a teenager, I was healthy in every sense of the word. This is were my true journey began and my where my passion for understanding the mind and helping others emerged. Over the last 7 years I have been commited to helping people to better understand themselves and achieve the goals they desire.


I am now fully associated in the real world, my movie is no longer that of a disaster, but one of hope and inspiration to others. Over the last 7 years, I have literally taken myself from wanting to check out from life to achieving more than I ever thought was truly possible. I now have abundant wealth, and I am not talking about materialistic things because I no that all experience comes from within and not from the external world, I have a loving family, loving friends, and a meaningful career. I am fulfilled, and I am eager to help you overcome the obstacles you face, no matter how highly they seem stacked against you.


Together, we are going to drastically transform your life, so much so that people are going to wonder what the hell happened to you …… in a good way.


Whether your trying to rise from a deep and dark place or are simply looking for a new direction, with meaning and purpose, to a great success, you can have, do and, be all you want. I have been through it all, and I am living the life I once thought was impossible – a meaningful and fulfilling life of helping people like you to reach the pinnacle of success.

"Impossible is just a big word thrown around by small men who find it easier to live in the world they’ve been given than to explore the power they have to change it. Impossible is not a fact. It’s an opinion. Impossible is not a declaration. It’s a dare. Impossible is potential. Impossible is temporary. Impossible is nothing."
Muhammad Ali

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The Practise Rooms

5 Broomfield Rd,

Sheffield

S10 2SE

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